Meeting My Favorite Author For The First Time!!

If you happen to follow me on social media (which if you don’t, you totally should…all my info for that is always left at the end of my posts), you would have seen that this past Tuesday, October 16th, was SUCH an exciting day for me.

I got to meet my favorite author and pretty much the person who is responsible for inspiring me to want to write as more than just a hobby.

The author I’m referring to is Nicholas Sparks, who I’m sure a lot of you are familiar with his work. He is the author who wrote best-sellers like The Notebook, A Walk To Remember, Dear John, The Last Song and SO many others…many of which were later turned into films.

Since it’s still so fresh, and I’m still really excited about it, I thought it would be fun (like most other things that I try to do) and share my entire experience of it with you guys!

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The Waiting Process

I had literally been planning for that day for about 2-3 months in advance since I first heard about the event happening.

It was a big deal, I was SO excited.

I had actually taken off from work to be able to go to it, because I didn’t want to risk missing anything from the event.

So, I made sure to wake up extra early (at about 5-6 am I believe), get ready as fast as I could (doing my hair, makeup in about half hour which I’m PRETTY sure is record breaking time) and rushing out the door. I managed to get to the 14th Street (Union Square) Barnes & Noble store by 8 o’clock. The doors didn’t open until 9 though, so I had (along with many others) to wait outside for an hour.

Personally, although it was REALLY cold that morning, it didn’t feel like all that long of a wait (thank god for social media and YouTube).

Once the doors opened at 9 you were directed to the main cashiers to be able to purchase the book and receive your wristband for the event. After getting both, you had the option of either coming back later when the event started at 12:30 OR just hanging out in the store until it was time.

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I was still freezing from being outside AND starving, so once I got my book and wristband, I quickly made my way upstairs to the Starbucks to get my coffee and something to eat. After getting those, I thought I was being “smart” by running upstairs to get to the floor that the event was going to be at so that I could secure my good seat…I quickly realized once I got up there that a TON of other people had the same idea as me 😂. It was all good though because I still managed to be pretty close up, in like the 3rd row.

By the time I actually got myself settled with my seat and other things, it was only about 10am, so I still had about 2 and a half hours to kill before the event started. Again, the waiting really wasn’t so bad for me honestly. In that time I was able to watch YouTube videos, read the synopsis of the book and author’s note, and even walked around the entire store and managed to come out with 4 extra books then what was originally intended. Needless to say I was very entertained lol.

While I was clearly having the best time EVER wandering around my favorite store and finding more and more books for me to buy by the second, before I knew it it was 12:30 and the event was about to start.

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The Event

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The event itself was pretty cool and fun. The events coordinator for the store introduced Nicholas Sparks a little bit, then had him come up on stage to say a few words before the meet and greet/book signing actually started.

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When he finally came up, he spoke a little bit about his previous books and what led him to write this one specifically (the name of his book is Every Breath if I didn’t already mention that). He spoke about a few key points in this specific book like the characters, their backgrounds, what inspired certain details in the book and a ton of other things that I don’t want to get TOO detailed about because I don’t want to spoil anything. He also took a few questions from the audience which I thought was really nice because a lot of people don’t do that.

I even got to ask and have him answer a question!

I’m one of those people that gets SO nervous about things like that and second guesses whether or not I actually want to and/or should, even if I really DO want to. Anxiety freakin’ sucks man. BUT, I literally had to tell myself to get over myself and just ask my question because how often am I ever going to get an opportunity like this again, ESPECIALLY with my favorite author?

So that’s what I did, I got up the courage to raise my hand to ask a question, and sure enough…he picked me! 😄 My question was, “What advice would you give to aspiring writers like myself who can only hope to be half as successful of an author that you are one day?”

He answered by saying “Speaking for myself, I love to read, so you of course have to read a lot. But you know what else I think helps me? TV and movies, and you know why? Because they’re stories. And if you’re talking about TV, every 8 minutes they kind of have to end on a cliff hanger when a commercial is coming because they have to keep you tuned in. Well that’s very handy in writing as well whenever you end another chapter, because you have to end in a way to make them, your readers, want to turn that next page. So there’s lessons to be learned from any form of good story. So you have to read, learn to value stories, and to see how stories tick and wind, and practice honing reasons why one book is better than another.”

I paraphrased a lot of what he said obviously, otherwise I could’ve gone on forever with his response, but that was pretty much the gist of it.

After he answered my question was when the meet and greets and book signing actually started.

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Meeting Nicholas Sparks Officially

As if simply asking him a question from afar wasn’t nerve-wrecking enough, I was about to finally meet him officially too!!

The whole process went relatively quick, I mean obviously right? There were over a hundred + people there waiting to meet him and get their book signed so of course he had to keep the line moving.

But regardless of the fact that they (his people?) were trying to keep the line moving smoothly and relatively quick, I thought it was really cool and interesting to see the interaction he had with each of his fans. He was really friendly and managed to go out of his way to speak to his fans individually as much as he could, and was even willing to sign as many copies of his book as you bought.

At one point I even saw that there was this girl who had brought every single book she had of his in hopes of getting them all signed by him, and he actually did it. I don’t know, maybe it’s just me, but I just think little things like that says a lot about a person/celebrity (in a good way), because he could’ve easily said no since there were so many people waiting, but he still made the time to do it in between signing his recent book for others.

Anyway, once my time came up, I was SO nervous. I didn’t actually know what to say to him, I wanted to make sure the picture(s) came out nice and a million other things were going through my mind too.

Ultimately, I actually got a couple of good shots of our interaction (see some of them below) and as for what I said to him, although it came out all jumbled up and I’m sure he didn’t understand half of it, I told him that he was my absolute favorite author and one of the main reasons that I decided to take my writing more seriously and hopefully become a successful author one day like he is. He said thank you so much, encouraged me to always keep trying and writing, gave me my signed book and I was on my way.

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Overall, although it wasn’t the ‘longest encounter’ ever, generally, it was a really great,  and very much worth it experience.

I don’t typically tend to do things like go to events like this, ESPECIALLY by myself because of my anxiety, so that alone was a BIG deal for me. Being able to step out of my comfort-zone to meet my favorite author, get to ask him a REALLY important question (to me anyway), get my book signed by him AND get a few pictures with him…what better?! He was also really nice about it all which made it even better.

I can’t even tell you guys how inspired and motivated I felt leaving the event that day, like I had so many different ideas for the blog going through my mind, so many things I wanted to start working on with my writing, etc. It made me really excited for not only my future, but my WRITING in the future. I’ve got some really exciting things coming soon for you guys and I can’t wait for you to see them.

I really hope you guys enjoyed this post. Thanks so much for reading, please like, share and follow if you aren’t already, and I’ll see you guys in the next one! 😊

-Xoxo, Leo Girl ❤

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My Gym Playlist

What’s up everyone?!

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a better weekend than what I had. I was stuck at home feeling really crappy from this cold I caught on Friday night 🤕, which is why I wasn’t able to post on Sunday like I typically try to do. But I’m starting to feel better now, so I’m working on this post while I have some downtime at work! 🙂

If you remember from reading my last post (8 Tips to Staying Motivated), one of the things I suggested was listening to music that not only makes you feel good, but also makes you feel like you can kickass throughout the day. In that post I mentioned that I wanted to be able to dedicate a complete post to the music that I typically tend to listen to, to motivate me not only in the gym, but in the mornings while heading to work, etc. So that’s exactly what I’m going to be doing today!

I managed to narrow them down to the 50 songs that I seem to go-to the most when I want something to really get me excited for my workout and in general. Also, some of these songs may be kind of “old”, but I’m a throwback music kind of girl so 🤷🏻‍♀️.

These are in no particular order:

  1. Run It! By Chris Brown (feat. Juelz Santana)
  2. Turn Up The Music By: Chris Brown
  3. Limbo By: Daddy Yankee
  4. Confident By: Demi Lovato
  5. Danza Kuduro By: Don Omar (Feat. Lucenzo)
  6. Remember The Name By: Fort Minor (Feat. Styles of Beyond)
  7. F*ck Up Some Commas By: Future
  8. Me, Myself & I By: G-Eazy & Bebe Rexha
  9. No Role Modelz By: J. Cole
  10. Work Out By: J. Cole
  11. Talk Dirty By: Jason Derulo (Feat. 2 Chainz)
  12. Run This Town By: Jay Z (Feat. Rihanna & Kanye West)
  13. Power By: Kanye West
  14. Famous By: Kanye West
  15. Let’s Go By: Calvin Harris (Feat. Neyo)
  16. Levels By Nick Jonas
  17. LA Devotee By: Panic! At The Disco
  18. Truffle Butter By: Nicki Minaj (Feat. Drake & Lil Wayne)
  19. Misery Business By: Paramore
  20. The Anthem By: Pitbull (Feat. Lil Jon)
  21. We Own It By: 2 Chainz & Wiz Khalifa
  22. Mercy By: Kanye West (Feat. Big Sean, Pusha T & 2 Chainz)
  23. Disco Inferno By: 50 Cent
  24. Bad and Boujee By: Migos (Feat. Lil Uzi Vert)
  25. Mi Gente By: J Balvin & Willy William
  26. Privacy By: Chris Brown
  27. For Free By: DJ Khaled (Feat. Drake)
  28. My Sh*t By: A Boogie
  29. Instruction By: Jax Jones (Feat. Demi Lovato)
  30. Cold By: Maroon 5 (Feat. Future)
  31. Don’t Stop The Music By: Rihanna
  32. Wild Thoughts By: DJ Khaled  (Feat. Rihanna & Bryson Tiller)
  33. No Limit By: G-Eazy (Feat. A$AP Rocky & Cardi B)
  34. Pray For Me By: The Weeknd & Kendrick Lamar
  35. Games By: Demi Lovato
  36. CRZY By: Kehlani
  37. Waiting For You By: Unlike Pluto (Feat. Joanna Jones)
  38. One Kiss By: Calvin Harris & Dua Lipa
  39. Fall In Line By: Christina Agulera (Feat. Demi Lovato)
  40. Dinero By: Jennifer Lopez (Feat. DJ Khaled & Cardi B)
  41. Look Alive By: BlocBoy JB (Feat. Drake)
  42. I Like It By: Cardi B, Bad Bunny & J Balvin
  43. Walk It Talk It By: Migos (Feat. Drake)
  44. X By: Nicky Jam & J Balvin
  45. Siguelo Bailando By: Ozuna
  46. Irresistible By: Fall Out Boy (Feat. Demi Lovato)
  47. I Believe By: Yolanda Adams
  48. Savior By: Iggy Azalea (Feat. Quavo)
  49. Beware By: Big Sean (Feat. Lil Wayne & Jhene Aiko)
  50. Moment 4 Life By: Nicki Minaj (Feat. Drake)

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Alright guys, well that’s it. Those are my top 50 songs that I tend to gravitate the most when I’m looking for sick beats and lyrics to motivate me in the gym and otherwise.

As I mentioned, there are SO many other songs that I also tend to listen to that would fall into this category as well, but for the sake of not making this post RIDICULOUSLY long, I narrowed it down to just 50 of them.

Let me know if you guys feel the same way about any of the songs I mentioned, OR if you guys have any recommendations of music/songs that you think I should listen to.

See you guys in my next post!

-Xoxo, Leo Girl ❤

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